Hey
Guys, I don’t only post news, I also write about reality . Well yesterday I was
discussing with a friend about an 11 years old girl who got pregnant for 5 boy
and that why I came up with this discussion , so I decided to share it with you
all. Just of recent i have notice that almost 60% of girls in Nigeria are school
dropout or have not even been to school before. Why? Nowadays there are things
that are happening in Nigeria, For example, the area where i live almost 85% of
the girls are having kids, you will see a girl of 14years having a child and
also at the age of 16 - 17 years she will be having 2-3 children, this result
to drop out.
That
is when you will see a girl who is just in junior secondary school not going to
school anymore, why?
1.
Its either lack of money
2.
Peer pressure
How
is it possible? some girls when they hit the “adolescent age”, they think they
have grown and think it’s the beginning of life, like some people normally say
"Enjoy your life, life is too short" and because of this they think they
can do anything they want and nothing can happen, but that is where they are
wrong, but how will they know? some of these girls have parents that don't care
about what they do when they are outside, and this also gives them the opportunity
to do whatever they want to do, and also some girls just want to do it to
impressed their friends and also make
people think they are cool and some girls just want to do it for fun and to
know how it feels and the funny thing is, none of these girls planned to get pregnant
and have children, it just happens out of carelessness and lack of protection.
Many girls use protection a lot which gives them the boldness to sleep around.
But, what they don't know is that, you just can't get lucky every time because
one day your luck will run out and that is when they will realize their
mistake.
This
is a story of a girl i know, this girl when she was still young she had the
best behavior, she was a good innocent young girl, But when she grew up and
became a mature lady everything changed, she became a spoilt girl and there was
something she always said that "God did not give her breast and Ass for
nothing but God gave her to use it to make money and she is now a school
dropout who has a daughter who is 1year old without a father because she said
she doesn’t know the father. Please is this Foolishness or what?
Well
i have looked into this matter and the causes i have come up with are:
CAUSES
1.
Ignorance from parents.
2.
Bad company.
3.
Lack of sex education.
4.
Low self-esteem.
5.
Lack of money.
So
what can be done to stop this?
PREVENTION
1.
Sex education.
2.
Parents should try and send their girl child to school, at least the basic
education (Primary/Secondary)
3.
Parents should be educated properly. I am talking about an orientation about
the abilities of a girl child because most parents are not educated in that
aspect.
So
what do you Guys think about it.
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